Charles “Eddie” Silva, 75, of Southington, surrounded by family and friends, passed away on September 13, 2016, after an 18 year courageous battle with Parkinson’s Disease.
Born in Norfolk, VA, December 21, 1940, son of the late Joseph Charles Silva and Mildred Bernice Kamendulis Silva. Eddie grew up in Gloucester, Massachusetts, and graduated from Gloucester High School. He went on to graduate from the University of New Hampshire where played hockey, football, and lacrosse.
Ed Silva was commissioned as a Second Lieutenant in the U.S. Army after completing the ROTC program at UNH. He was deployed to South Vietnam, where he served as a helicopter pilot. Captain Silva received eighteen air medals, flew several hundred missions, and was shot down three times. He flew a number of notables during his tour including Ann-Margret and Vice President Humphrey. Ed also enjoyed a drink of vodka with Russian cosmonaut Yuri Gagarin.
Eddie settled in Southington, worked for Allstate Insurance for over 30 years and had 20 years of service in the CT National Guard. Eddie served as president of the Southington Rotary Club, served on the Board of the Southington YMCA and the Board of Directors of the Northern Little League. He was an active member of the girls and boys sports programs in Southington. Ed loved sports, especially playing golf, rooting on the Boston Red Sox and all Boston sports teams.
Eddie was a man who defined the meaning of perseverance, courage and love. He was a coach, mentor and friend to the very end. We learned to count our time together by the moments we shared and the laughs we had, which were many.
He was the proud father of four devoted children: Ed Silva Jr. and Nicole Fallon of Milford, Kevin Silva and wife Mary of Carlisle, PA, Melinda Silva and wife Denise of Southington, and Julie Wlodarczyk of Tolland. He has ten special grandchildren: Katie, Matthew, Brian, Megan, Kent, Lucas, Grace, Charlie, Max and Maya and several nieces and nephews. He is also survived by Bob and Elinor Gregory, lifelong friend Roger Lee and former son-in-law Matthew Wlodarczyk.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, September 17, 2016 at 10:15 am from the DellaVecchia Funeral Home, 211 North Main Street, Southington to Saint Dominic’s Church, 1050 Flanders Road for a Mass at 11 am. Calling hours will be 4-7 pm on Friday, September 16, 2016. Burial will be at the convenience of the family.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to the Southington VFW, 68 Main St, Southington, CT or American Parkinson Disease Association, 27 Allendale Dr, North Haven, CT 06473.
For online condolences and directions visit www.dellavecchiafh.com